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The Pragmatic Functions of ‘Sorry’ Beyond Blame in Nigerian Everyday Interaction

Cite this article as: Zubairu, H. M. (2026). The pragmatic functions of ‘Sorry’beyond blame in Nigerian everyday interaction. Sokoto Journal of Linguistics and Communication Studies (SOJOLICS), 2(1), 313-323. https://doi.org/10.36349/sojolics.2026.v02i01.028

By

Hauwa Muhammad Zubairu
Department of English and Literary Studies
Ahmadu Bello University, Zaria
mrshzshafa@gmail.com

Abstract

This study re-examines the speech act of apology by exploring how the expression “Sorry” is used in everyday Nigerian English contexts. Classical speech act theory describes apology as an admission of responsibility for an offence. However, everyday interactions in Nigeria reveal a broader range of meanings. Using a qualitative descriptive research design, the study samples 40 naturally occurring instances collected through participant observation in formal settingswithin Zaria, Kaduna State, and documented using field notes. This qualitative study investigates how “sorry” functions beyond the domain of apology. Data were selected through purposive sampling and analysed through a pragmatic framework. The analysis shows that, in many contexts, “sorry” works less as an acceptance of blame and more as a marker of empathy, solidarity, condolence, and relational alignment. Rather than indexing guilt, it frequently signals emotional support and social connectedness. Drawing on Speech Act Theoryand Politeness Theory, this study argues that Nigerian English pragmatically extends the meaning of apology into a culturally embedded practice of relational maintenance. By foregrounding everyday usage, the study contributes to cross-cultural pragmatics and highlights how global English forms are locally reshaped through social practice.

Keywords: Speech Act Theory, Apology, Politeness Theory, Cross-Cultural Pragmatics, Nigerian English

1.0 Introduction

Classical speech act theory, developed by Austin (1962) and Searle (1969), posits language as a tool for performing actions through illocutionary acts. The meaning associated with an utterance is the user’s intention, not simply the meaning of words in the utterance. “The study of user intention focuses on the actions performed with words in both speech and writing.” Austin (1962) postulates that when an individual makes an utterance, they perform some “speech acts” such as requesting, questioning, pronouncing, informing, apologising etc. The theory frames apology as a remedial act performed by a speaker who acknowledges responsibility for an offence and seeks to restore social equilibrium. Apology is therefore tied to guilt, repair, and the management of face. These accounts are more closely tied to Euro-American norms and may not have the same meanings that apology-related expressions take in other sociocultural backgrounds.

In everyday Nigerian English usage, the expression “sorry” sometimes exceeds this standard definition. It is frequently uttered in situations where the speaker bears no responsibility for any wrongdoing. For example, people use sorry when someone stumbles, sneezes, falls ill, chokes while eating or drinking, experiences misfortune, feels sad, or recounts a difficulty. In these contexts, “sorry” does notfunction as an admission of fault, it goes beyond that and performs relational work (Locher & Watts, 2005), and it is used to display empathy, show solidarity, or align with another person’s emotional state. Its frequent and seemingly automatic deployment as a face-saving act shows that it plays a significant role in maintaining social cohesion within Nigerian sociocultural life.

Despite growing scholarshipin cross-cultural pragmatics in recent years, relatively limited research addresses the pragmatics of apology forms in Nigerian English (Unuabonahet al.,2025, p. 1). Studies often focus on strategies for expressing regret, mitigating responsibility, or negotiating face. Contexts in which apology-related forms are detached from blame are less explored and instead, mobilised as routine markers of communal belonging and affective support. This research gap therefore necessitates closer investigation into how globally circulating English expressions acquire locally grounded meanings.

This paper therefore examines the speech act of apology by analysing the pragmatic functions of “sorry” in everyday Nigerian English interaction. Drawing on 40 naturallyoccurring instances collected throughparticipant observationconducted in formaleducational settings, the paper analyses the pragmatic functions of “sorry” beyond blame.

2.0 Literature Review

2.1 Apology as a Speech Act

Searle (1969) places speech acts at the very crux of the study of language, meaning, and communication given that the speech act is the basic unit of communication. He proposes terms that are commonly used for speech acts such as request, promise, apology, compliment, complaint, or invitation. These descriptive terms for different kinds of speech acts apply to the speakers’ communicative intention in producing an utterance.

Apology has traditionally been analysed within the framework of Speech Act Theory. In this tradition, apology is classified as an expressive act through which a speaker acknowledges responsibility for an offence and expresses regret. According to Austin (1962) and Searle (1969), the illocutionary force of an apology lies in recognising a social breach and attempting to restore equilibrium between interlocutors. Felicity conditions associated with apology typically include the existence of an offence, speaker responsibility, and the expression of remorse. The act of apologizing is called for when there is some behaviour which violates social norms. When an action or utterance results in the fact that one or more persons perceive themselves as offended, the culpable person or persons need to apologize. Therefore, this means that there are two parties involved: an apologizer and an apologize (Daftari & Tavil, 2015).

Subsequent pragmatic research has elaborated on the strategies through which apologies are realised. This includes explicit expressions of regret (“I’m sorry”), acceptance of responsibility, offers of repair, and promises of forbearance (Holmes, 1995; Olshtain, 1989). These studies often conceptualise apology as inherently remedial and closely linked to culpability. Even indirect forms are assumed to presuppose some degree of wrongdoing.

The act of apologizing requires an action or an utterance which is intended to “set things right” (Olshtain, 1983). As Marquez-Reiter (2000) states, an apology is a “compensatory action for an offense committed by the speaker which has affected the hearer”. According to Bataineh and Bataineh (2006), apologies fall under expressive speech acts in which speakers attempt to indicate their state or attitude. As Searle (1976) states, a person who apologizes for doing A expresses regret at having done A so the apology act can take place only if the speaker believes that some act A has been performed prior to the time of speaking and that this act A resulted in an infraction which affected another person who is now deserving an apology (Olshtain, 1983).

However, this canonical framing is challenged by occurrences in which apology-related forms appear in contexts lacking offence. If apology is defined primarily through responsibility and repair, then cases of uses that deviate from these conditions should be reconsidered. That is, analysts should consider whether apology expressions retain their original illocutionary force or undergo pragmatic extension in specific sociocultural environments.

2.2 Politeness, Face, and Relational work

The study of apology intersects closely with the theories of politeness and face. Brown and Levinson’s (1987) influential model frames interaction around the protection of positive and negative face. Within this framework, apology functions as redressive actions. That is, they attend to the hearer’s face after it has been threatened, mitigating damage and restoring social harmony.

Despite highly influential, the model has been critiqued for being individualistic in its orientation and grounding on western assumptions. Later studies have expanded the concept of face to include relational and communal dimensions (Gu, 1990; Locher& Watts,2005). The notion of ‘face’ is derived from that of Goffman (1967) and the English folk term, which ties face up with notions of being embarrassed, humiliated, or ‘losing face’. Thus, face is something that is emotionally invested, and that can be lost, maintained or enhanced, and must be constantly attended to in interaction (Brown & Levinson, 1987). In general, people cooperate (and assume each other’s cooperation) in maintaining face in interaction, such cooperation being based on the mutual vulnerability of the face. Politeness, therefore, is not merely a strategy for avoiding offence but a means of sustaining social bonds and enacting solidarity.

From this perspective, apology expressions may be understood not only as a repair mechanism but also as a resource for relational work. An utterance such as “sorry” may function less as an admission of guilt and more as an alignment move. This signals empathy, shared affect, or social closeness. Such uses challenge narrow definitions of apology and point toward a flexible understanding of expressive acts in context.

2.3 Cross-Cultural Pragmaticsand the Concept of Apology in Nigerian English

Cross-cultural communication is a field of study that examines how people from different cultural backgrounds interact and communicate with each other. An important aspect of pragmatics in cross-cultural communication is the recognition of cultural variations in speech patterns and conversational styles(Scollon & Scollon, 2001; House, 2006). Pragmatic analysis helps individuals navigate these differences and adapt their communication style accordingly to facilitate mutual understanding (Scollon & Scollon, 2001). Cross-cultural pragmatics also involves examining how language and culture shape perceptions of politeness, respect, and social distance. Pragmatics plays a crucial role in cross-cultural communication by providing insights into how language use is shaped by cultural norms, values, and context. Through the analysis of speech acts, politeness strategies, cultural scripts, and frames, individuals can navigate cultural differences and communicate effectively in diverse cultural settings. Studies in cross-cultural pragmatics consistently show that speech acts areshaped by sociocultural norms,that is, semantic equivalents across languages often exhibit differences in pragmatic force, frequency, and conditions of appropriate use (House, 2006; Blum-Kulka &Olshtain, 1984).

Some scholars (Kachru, 1985; Mesthrie, 2008) argue that global English forms within the framework of world Englishes, are appropriated and reshaped to reflect local communicative practices.English, a well-established variety, shows pragmatic features that reflect the sociocultural realities of its speakers. However, most of the studies focus on phonology, lexis, and syntax, with comparatively less attention to everyday pragmatic routines.

The prevalent use of “sorry” in the Nigerian communication behaviour (which includes situations of illness, misfortune, or accidental harm unrelated to the speaker), suggests pragmatic repurposing. Saying “sorry” not only signals apology, it also functions as a culturally embedded marker of empathy and communal identification.

2.4 Research Questions

The study is guided by the following research questions:

1. What are the pragmatic functions of ‘sorry’ in everyday Nigerian English?

2. How is ‘sorry’ used beyond apology and speaker culpability?

3. What is the role of ‘sorry’ in relational communication?

2.5 Aim and Objectives of the Study

The study aims to examine the pragmatic functions of ‘sorry’ in everyday Nigerian English interaction beyond its conventional role as an apology. The specific objectives of the study are to:

1. identify the pragmatic functions of ‘sorry’ in everyday Nigerian English interaction.

2. analyse the use of ‘sorry’ beyond apology and speaker culpability.

3. examine how the expression ‘sorry’ contributes to relational communication.

3.0 Methodology

The study adopted Speech Act Theory (Austin, 1962; Searle, 1969) and Politeness Theory (Brown & Levinson, 1987). The study relied on already published studies and reports, which form the secondary data. The primary data were collected through participant observation of naturally occurring interactions in formal settings within the Department of English and Literary Studies, Ahmadu Bello University, Zaria. This setting includes classrooms, offices, and other places around the Department.

Forty naturally occurring instances of “sorry” were documented in situations where the speaker bore no responsibility for wrongdoing. Purposive sampling was used to collect data for the study, and only naturally occurring speech was included in the analysis. Ethical considerations were addressed where necessary, verbal consent was obtained where feasible, and the anonymity of participants was strictly observed to avoid identifying details.

A qualitative, observation-based research method was used for the analysis to capture authentic usage, allow context-sensitive analysis, and explore culturally embedded functions. This ensures that the findings of the study are empirically grounded while providing a robust foundation for interpreting “sorry” as a pragmatically extended form of relational work.

4.0 Theoretical Framework

This work is anchored in Austin’s (1962) and Searle’s (1969) Speech Act Theory, and Brown and Levinson’s (1987) Politeness Theory. These two theories together provide a framework for understanding the pragmatic functions of the use of “sorry” within the language context. 

5.0 Data Presentation and Analysis

A total of 40 instances of the use of the expression “sorry” were collected from everyday interactions in formal settings (specifically, Department of English and Literary Studies,

Ahmadu Bello University, Zaria). Though the scope of the study is within a specific institutional context, the interactional patterns reflect broader communicative practices characteristic of Nigerian English in formal settings.The analysis focuses on recurring interactional patterns, contextual features, and pragmatic functions that were observed across the collected data.Only selected conversational excerpts are presented due to space constraints; however, the discussion highlights representative patterns that consistently emerged across the different interactions. Also, each conversational turn is line-numbered forease of reference and analytical clarity.

5.1 Table 1: Pragmatic Functions of “sorry” in Nigerian English Interaction

S/NO

Pragmatic Function

Excerpt

Pragmatic Interpretation

Theoretical Alignment

1

Empathy

Lecturer A: I have been down with body pains since yesterday. I had to cancel some of my classes.

Lecturer B: Eiyya,sorry. You need to rest o.

‘Sorry’ isused here toexpress concern and emotion rather than culpability.

Searle (1969) Expressives; Brown and Levinson (1987) positive politeness

2

Empathy

Student A: I missed the test again.

Student B: Hey! Sorry! How will you explain to the lecturer now?

Signals emotional support and encouragement rather than apology.

Speech Act Theory (extended expressives)

3.

Solidarity/ Relational Bonding

Student: (drops cup) Ah!...sorry ma,it has broken.

Lecturer: Sorry, sorry, it’s okay. I hope you are not hurt.

Reinforces interpersonal closeness and reduces tension after a minor mishap.

Brown & Levinson (1987); Positive Face

4.

Solidarity/ Relational Bonding

Lecturer: I just missed aluta (school bus)… I have to walk to the gate to get keke(commercial tricycle)

Security man: Ah! Sorryo ma! that will be really stressful o.

Indicates shared affect and relational alignment.

Locher & Watts (2005) – relational work

5.

Condolence

/Sympathy

Staff: I lost my mother-in-law last week.

Lecturer:…Ah! I’m really sorry about your loss.

Formulaic expression of sympathy without speaker responsibility.

Olshtain (1983); expressive speech acts

6.

Condolence /Sympathy

Professor: My wife’s shop was also destroyed in the fire.

Lecturer: Ye! Sorrysir, that’s really painful.

Communicates emotional support in serious misfortune contexts.

Politeness Theory; Expressives

7.

Phatic/ Interactional Management

Staff: Sorry, what did you just say?

Secretary: I said the meeting has been postponed to next week.

Softens interruption and maintains conversational flow.

Face-saving strategies; discourse pragmatics

8.

Phatic/ Interactional Management

A1: Sorry ma, we can’t hear you well from the back.

Lecturer: Ok. Let me go over it again.

Functions as politeness marker for clarification requests.

Brown & Levinson (1987); Interactional alignment

 

5.2 Analysis

Every instance of “sorry” was examined according to the following categories:

Contextual Features: social relationships, setting, and conversational cues.

Function: pragmatic role in showing empathy, solidarity, condolence, and phatic alignment.

Alignment with theory: reflection of canonical apology, politeness strategies, or relational work.

The analysis revealed four overlapping pragmatic functions of “sorry”in the Nigerian English data collected for the study.

Empathy: “Sorry” (Excerpt 2: line 3) was used as an empathetic response to personal difficulty or discomfort. This was particularly observed during lecturer-student, student-student, and lecturer-lecturer interactions.There weremany instances which conveyed understanding or emotional resonance without implying responsibility. Examples:

When someone, probably a student or another lecturer is down with an illness, interlocutors responded with “sorry”, or “Eiyya, sorry” (Oh dear, sorry) (excerpt 1: line 3). This signals compassion, and shared affect. The use of “sorry” indicates an expressive alignment move. That means, shifting from fault to emotional connection.

Solidarity and Relational Bonding: several occurrences established emotional alignment. Speakers offered “sorry” (excerpt 3: lines 2 and 3; and excerpt 4: line 4) in response to minor misfortunes. This could include, spilling food or drink, tripping or stumbling, minor traffic delays, getting wetin the rain, even when not involved. In classroom settings, this politeness strategy is used as a face-saving act between lecturer-student, student-student interactions. For example, when a student is unable to respond accurately to a question. Thisacknowledges the other’s experience and reinforces social cohesion, extending Brown and Levinson’s (1987) model to include relational maintenance.

Condolence Formula: during serious misfortunes, like death, illness, or loss of property, “sorry” is used to signal sympathy. Utterances like “I’m really sorry about your loss” (excerpt 5: line 4) or “Sorry sir, that’s really painful.” (excerpt 6: line 3) communicates care efficiently. These expressions are structurally similar to canonical apologies, also they are pragmatically distinct. This means thatthey express empathy without personal responsibility. Lecturers and students used “sorry” in these instances as immediate response to serious misfortune. They are used as condolences rather than admission of fault.

Phatic and Interactional Alignment: speakers used “sorry” to politely make clarification, acknowledge minor interruptions, in casualgreetings, conversation fillers, smooth misunderstandings, and even digital discourse.These are instances where “sorry” serves as a phatic function, facilitating conversation and maintaining rapport. Both staff and students use sorry within and outside the classroom setting for correcting misunderstandings, seeking clarifications or explanations; for example, “Sorry, what did you just say?” (excerpt 7: line 1),or “sorry ma, we can’t hear you…” (excerpt 8: line 1). Therefore, these instances, saying “sorry” does not express any emotions but softens interaction and maintains relational alignment between interlocutors.

6.0 Discussion of Findings

The findings from this study reveal that “sorry” in Nigerian English functions beyond traditional apology. Rather than focusing on culpability, it serves as a relational resource. While Speech Act Theory conceptualises apology as an expressive act requiring acknowledgement of wrongdoing (Austin, 1962; Searle, 1969), the Nigerian data complicate this assumption. This is used in expressing solidarity, condolence, empathy, and conversational alignment. This cultural recalibration prioritises communal harmony and effective connection over fault admission.

These findings can be meaningfully situated against recent investigations into apology and the pragmatic extension of apology-related expressions. Aijmer (2019), in a corpus-based study of British English teenagers’ use of apology expressions, found that “sorry” frequently extends beyond its canonical illocutionary function to serve ironic, phatic, and non-culpability purposes, demonstrating that even within a single variety of English the expression resists reduction to a single speech act type. Rieger (2017), arguing from a discursive pragmatics perspective, similarly emphasised that apologies are best understood as relational work. Rieger argues that apology is co-constructed and co-negotiated in situated interaction rather than as fixed illocutionary acts defined by speaker responsibility alone. Most directly relevant is Unuabonah et al. (2025), whose account of apologising in Nigerian English identifies nativised forms shaped by indigenous Nigerian languages and shows that the linguistic realisation of apology is systematically conditioned by communicative situation. The present study both complements and extends these findings. While Unuabonah et al. (2025) document the forms and situational conditioning of apologies in Nigerian English broadly, the present study foregrounds the specific pragmatic functions of “sorry” in contexts where speaker culpability is entirely absent. This demonstrates that the expression has been pragmatically reoriented into a primary resource for empathy, solidarity, condolence, and interactional alignment. The gap bridged by this study lies in this systematic, empirically grounded account of “sorry” as a culturally embedded marker of relational maintenance in Nigerian English. Crucially, this function operates independently of the felicity conditions that canonical speech act theory associates with apology.

The study also contributes to ongoingcritiques of Brown and Levinson’s (1987) model, highlighting collective and relational dimensions of face.The present study supports this critique empirically, showing that in Nigerian English, 'sorry' prioritises communal harmony and relational solidarity over individual face-saving, a pattern consistent with Gu's (1990) communal orientation and Locher and Watts' (2005) relational work framework. Nigerian usage foregrounds social connectedness, while showing that expressions traditionally considered remedial may routinely maintain relationships.While Gu (1990) reveals that politeness in Chinese interaction is grounded in social norms and communal expectations, Locher and Watts (2005) reframe politeness as relational work embedded in social practice.

The findings of the present study align with those of the above scholars but extend them by empirical evidence from Nigerian English. The study also contributes to cross-cultural pragmatics by showing the fluidity of English speech acts. The extension of “sorry” illustrates how global English forms interact with local norms, gaining context-specific functions, consistent with world Englishes (Kachru, 1985; Unuabonah&Oyebola, 2025).

Lastly, the work underscores the value of observing naturally occurring interactions. Real-life contexts capture subtleties invisible in elicited data, including emotional alignment and reinforcement of communal identity.

7.0 Conclusion

This work re-examined apology in Nigerian English, focusing on “sorry” in everyday interaction. The analysis shows that “sorry” often functions not as a marker of responsibility, but as a tool for relational work that expresses empathy, offers condolences, fosters solidarity and facilitating smooth interaction. These findings challenge canonical definitions of apology and emphasise cultural specificity. The study analysed 40 naturally occurring instances, thereby contributing to a nuanced understanding of apology as a socially negotiable, culturally embedded speech act. The study combined Speech Act Theory and Politeness Theory with local sociocultural insight to provide a framework for exploring pragmatic extension in other English varieties.

The research thereforeshows that English expressions are shaped by the communities that use them. In the Nigerian context, “sorry” exemplifies how a globally familiar form adapts to serve empathy, solidarity, and relational cohesion, expanding the understanding of apology across diverse contexts.

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